Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Missouri Welcome


Today I was remembering a conversation my two grandchildren and I had with an elderly gentleman we met while we were walking up and down the block in their new home state--Missouri. I'll try to quote it:


Gentleman: (standing in the driveway of his house, the one in this picture)
Good Afternoon.
We three: Good afternoon.
Zaya: Excuse me, Is this your house?
Gent: Yes, it is.
Zaya: It is a beauuutiful house! My grandma even took a picture of it when we passed by earlier.
Gent: Why thank you. We've lived in it for 42 years.
Mim: We just moved here from Oklahoma.
Gent: Oklahoma? So are you a Sooner or a Cowboy?
Zaya: Well, I can't be a cowboy, because I'm allergic to horses. (smiles) Actually, I'm a science fan.
Gent: A science fan?
Zaya: Yes, but I'm allergic to most animals so I'm going to be a biological chemist.
Mim: He's allergic to anything that has hair, even to my hamster Goki.
Zaya: I had a Tokay Gecko because he was a reptile, but we had to feed him live crickets and that was a real problem.
Gent: I imagine it was.
Zaya: Do you know what you have in Missouri? You have cardinals.
Gent: (All excited) Yes we do! How about them Saint Louis Cardinals!
Zaya: Well the male is all red and the female has a brown head and reddish beak.
Gent: (smiling) Oh! You mean the birds!

Grandma Lilibeth:(explaining) Yes, their new back yard is full of birds, and they're not used to seeing so many out in Western Oklahoma.
Mim: Yes, we see them on our deck and also hummingbirds and a spotted woodpecker.
Zaya: And some bird that we don't recognize that eats the ants off the hummingbird feeder.
Gent: Well welcome to Missouri! I think you'll like it here.


And I think they will. Their back yard is just perfect for a couple of young biological chemists.








Sunday, September 4, 2011

Family Reunion


We took a mini-vacation on Saturday and drove down to Turner Falls for a family reunion. It had been way too many years since we had been together as a family. Ever since grandma, then grandpa died, we have all lived our separate lives in lots of states, staying connected through the grape vine and not always remembering or knowing what each other was going through.

 Since Grandma and Grandpa had seven children and twenty four grandchildren, that was a lot of not knowing and not recognizing faces to go with names and not praying for each other during hard times simply because we didn't find out about those times until they were long past.





Facebook changed all that. We, the "not so young but young enough to appreciate social networks" group began to friend each other online. We reminded each other of where we lived and what we did and how many kids we had and what had become of us. Invariably, we began to talk about old times--noisy dinners around little tables, drinking out of tall Tupperware glasses with spill-proof spouts on top, snitching bits of left-over dough cream pies, and playing kick the can out under the cherry tree. We remembered...and we decided we missed each other.

Then came a crisis. One of our cousins was diagnosed with ALS. His sister and his father started calling for a reunion. At times like this family needs family.

We agreed. So my cousin's sister Tonya, and my Uncle Dale began to look for a place that was centrally located, where we could rent a building for a couple of days and nights.


She found one in South Central Oklahoma, and when my uncle went up to investigate it, he was amazed to discover that it was owned by another branch of our family. The owner's great grandfather was our great grandfather's brother. How ironic is that?








So we all arrived, exclaiming at each old face and being introduced to the new ones...some of which looked just like the old ones, but from the past not the present. You get it.




The genealogists among us were in the Land of Delight--right next to Heaven, that is, having a better acquaintance than the rest of us with the long line who have already passed over.

 There were old pictures there; some we had never seen, although we were in them. Others were pictures of our parents and aunts and uncles doing things like fishing and climbing trees back when they were humans instead of adults. They wore hats and funny shoes and chuckled as they told us why they were smiling and who it was who was holding their hand.



Cameras flashed, tired children napped, scanners and laptops hummed unceasingly copying old documents and pictures to share with everyone.
First cousins-once-removed discussed migraines and how to tell when they are coming so you can stop them before they slow you down.











Brothers caught up on the latest in the real estate market and the price of a good herd of cattle.
 

I almost got a video of this group playing football in the house, but they must have seen an authority figure approaching and hidden the ball...or maybe they thought I was an authority figure. Rats. I keep forgetting how old I am.


And compared to these two--my niece and nephew-in-law--I'm quite old, but compared to 98 year old Great Aunt Ida, who's catching up on events in the life of her young nephew, my Uncle Henry, I'm almost as young as I feel.


There were Sooner shirts, Cowboy shirts, and even a rogue Bullrider shirt--worn as an antidote to all that Texas and Oklahoma fan mania.
There was an abundance of good food... and a constant chatter of background voices.

We decided that this is something we should do more often...in a couple of years for sure. No, we don't agree on everything. No we aren't a perfect family. But we still need each other and don't want to forget that.


Friday, September 2, 2011

Sunset in the Smoke


Stepping outside, I smelled smoke from far away fires as it spiraled upward to join the dusts of our heat dome dragon--the one that has poised over the prairie for a hundred days, scorching us with its torrid breath. Dingy, brown smoke-- Low to the ground, it came sliding over the acres of dead dry grass, rising again, but just enough to make the sun blur at the edges.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Webb City

For three years of my life I lived in Webb City, Missouri, a little town north of Joplin. We moved there in the fall, just before my eighth-grade year of school, so my father could teach in a small Bible school, and we stayed for a year in an old house that served as the administrative headquarters of the school, the kitchen and dining room, and the girls' dorm.



There were only four girls dorm students that year so they all stayed in the attic. Our family lived on the second floor. My three sisters and I all stayed in the large master bedroom, Dad and Mom had the corner room with the phone.  Dad's office was in a third bedroom; there were two guest rooms, and one large bathroom with a claw-footed tub and marbled walls.



We simply loved Missouri, and the house was amazing with elaborate features--stained glass, chandeliers, old pictures with gilt frames, niches for statues, and a laundry chute that led from the second floor. past the kitchen to the basement. (We used to wad the kitchen towels after we finished drying dishes and throw them hard enough to open the hinged chute door on their own.)  There was an intercom system from the kitchen to the master bedroom and to the attic.



Since the house was almost a hundred years old, the intercom didn't use electricity, just hollow pipes with a hinged lid that had a tiny hole in it. If you blew into the pipe in the kitchen, it would whistle at the other end. Someone--either the master of the house or a servant in the attic depending on which pipe you had opened--would answer. Magic. In the full basement there was a "print" shop where the school paper was folded, stapled, and assembled for mailing, a laundry room, boiler room taken up by a large boiler which heated the water and pumped it up to radiators scattered throughout the house, pantry, and a ping-pong table room--frequented by the students in their free time after supper or lunch.

After a year in that house, we moved a block away and into our own house, a two-story frame affair that had been a boarding house and had an old stove in every bedroom. For two years we worked on it, tearing out old plaster walls and lath, and replacing them with sheet rock, turning a downstairs porch into a bathroom and a laundry room, texturing, painting, paneling and roofing.
It was grand. For the first time in our lives we had room. With four bedrooms upstairs we each had our own space. Downstairs was room for a living room, den, master bedroom and nursery for our baby brother and sister who were both born in Missouri, which we had come to love. The house was located near this ancient church, and the blocks all around were filled with old homes.





In Missouri you could ride a bike--all over town, without an adult tagging along. You could walk around the block to the library and check out a dozen books in English. I discovered Erle Stanley Gardiner, Agatha Christie, Mary Stewart, and Victoria Holt.
After school you could walk a few blocks home, stopping at the little grocery store along the way and buying two large sweet tarts for a dime. In the fall there were trees in glorious colors I had never witnessed--having spent my younger years in the tropics. In the spring there was something--I never knew what--in the air. I remember standing at the window of my third-story chemistry class breathing the fresh, outside air, and wanting to leave the building and wander the streets all day just to be out in it.



Sadly, our citizenship in that little town came to an abrupt end. The school moved to Houston, Texas, a muggy megapolis full of complicated freeways. They sold our house for four thousand dollars, and the school for twenty. I left the streets full of lovely old homes with shaded yards, and moved into a tiny, rented house on a flat street with empty lots full of fire ants and air that smelled like the hold of a fishing ship.

After thirty years I persuaded Turtle to make a detour on a trip so we could go look at Webb City again. It was depressing. Most of the old homes had fallen into disrepair and that little town had a hopeless, grungy, neglected feel. The house we had remodeled was gone; there were weeds and garbage on the empty lot where it had stood and the boarded windows of an old warehouse loomed in ugliness over it all. Still, I showed him the library, which was still standing, and the high school which wasn't, and we drove away in sad silence.


Then, when I was in Missouri this August, I decided to visit Webb City again, parked on main street and wandered around. Things looked brighter.



The little cafe where I ate breakfast was lively with customers and scurrying waitresses who were talking about opening a branch business. Main street was clean. Everywhere I walked I saw old houses being repaired--scaffolding and paint.

The big brick house on Pennsylvania street was still there, bigger than ever and loaded with air-conditioners in every window. (Even though it wasn't labeled as such, I suspected that it was serving as some kind of boarding house.) It was interesting, that in this economy things would be looking up.



It wasn't until later, when I drove out of town and straight onto Joplin's Range Line road that the explanation hit me: Joplin had been struck by a huge tornado this year; they lost over a hundred lives and hundreds of homes. I'm sure people who had no place to go moved into the little, neglected town five miles away and began to restore the houses. Out of tragedy came order, beauty and the new life that's caused by people willing to sigh, pick up a broom and a hammer, and try again.





































Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Morning on the Prairie



I got a couple of hours off from classes this morning because the history teacher had taken my students to watch a town hall meeting and see their state representative in action; it gave me a chance to go have the oil changed on my car before it disowned me. Anyway. I really can't go anywhere without taking a picture or two. Here's a sunrise from the drive into town and the windmills from the trip back. The tree--well, I really can't resist a tree that's brave enough to try to grow out here in this drought.


                                                                           
                                                                             And, lest you think those clouds mean we got a break from the weather, I sadly report that we got no rain...and my car thermometer was at 110 when I left school this afternoon. I know that's hard to believe. Blue clouds mean cool weather. Right?

Monday, August 22, 2011

My fifty dollar tomato

Back in May, when I was still hopeful, I planted a few tomato plants up against the back of the house in didrect east sunlight. I'm not sure why. Maybe it was the shock of seeing tomatoes at the grocery store--big, juicy round red ones--for a dollar and ninety-nine cents. I'm sure I thought, "I could buy a whole plant for that." In fact, I'll buy a half dozen plants and make the investment. So I did.
They wouldn't have lasted a week, however, without constant watering. In fact some of them did wither and die while my back was turned, but most of them survived. Here's the fruit of my constant labor...by the time you count the increase in my water bill, I'm estimating that this two inch tomato cost me fifty dollars. I sure hope it tastes good.


Sunday, August 21, 2011

Summer Slump





True. True. I haven't been writing much lately and I have a few excuses ready:


One, school started and I have new curriculum in my CS IV class. That means I have to stay ahead of the students, watch every video and read every new article very carefully so I can help them understand it. Since this is my philosophy course, and rather complicated, it takes me a while.

Two, my daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren moved to Missouri, so I went to visit them the week before school started. I walked around a lot, enjoying the creeks and the parks. Nobody seems to be allergic to poison ivy but me. It's been two weeks now since I returned. The medicine seems to be wearing off now and I'm not as incredibly sleepy as I was for a while.

Three, friends of ours from Colorado brought us their son. He is staying in the dorm during the week and with us on weekends. We've been catching up on everything that has happened in each others' lives for the past twelve years via e-mail, phone, and facebook.

Four, our Wednesday night staff at the church unanimously decided to abandon our children's program because of what we perceived as a growing commercialism and softening of the program. We are now writing our own curriculum. That means motto, emblem, song, awards, and selection of lessons for the year. It has all fallen into place beautifully, but not without some time input.

Five, with my grandchildren gone I don't get that daily input of cute sayings and doings to report.

Six, with temperatures over one hundred, I don't get lovely pictures on my morning walks...in fact I don't even get morning walks very often.

Oh well, enough excuses. Tomorrow I'm going to write a real blog post...pictures and all...you'll see. Now for a little nap before church tonight...

Saturday, August 13, 2011

There Are Two Ways to Look at Things

Last week the little Ford Ranger began to die. Oh it wasn't really surprising. We've known for sometime that its arthritis was masking some deeper systemic problems and that the motor needed a triple bypass, but a transplant was out of the question? Yes, we knew that sooner or later, we'd have to break down and buy another vehicle. But the pick-up was paid for. That's huge. That means liability insurance only, and even being able to use garage space for projects instead of parking both vehicles under the shelter of the roof. Unfortunately, it also means trips to the City, wondering if the road beneath you is going to shake your fillings out. Anyway. Last week the pickup had to be put into the shop while Turtle was at a convention in Norman. After he paid for new tie-rods and other wheel/frame/drum related issues, the engine began to shut down at inconvenient spots on the interstate. We had held on long enough.

When he got home, Turtle started looking for another vehicle. True, the Ranger still runs, and we can use it for hauling trash to the dump or old boats to the dock, but taking parishioners to the hospital, or other ministers to sectional meetings requires a more reliable transportation mode. In short, he found a car. It's not a new car, but it doesn't have too many miles on it to be reliable, and, more importantly, it won't have really large payments. Our bank looked up our credit record and discovered that my car has only one more payment before it's paid off completely.

My first reaction was,
"Oh great. Just get one car paid off and immediately begin payments on another."  Then I thought about it again and adjusted my attitude. It would have been too much to be making two car payments every month, so God saw that the old pick-up lasted, and Turtle was patient enough to wait until my car was completely paid off. That's worth celebrating.

So I'm feeling pretty good.


Saturday, July 30, 2011

Nothing Ever Happens in our Little Town...Except For the Occasional Drive-by Shooting


Yes, those are bullet holes, 38's by the look of them, and they shattered a glass door and a window before embedding themselves in the art gallery wall. When Claye got to work Tuesday morning, her boss--the mayor--and a policeman were surveying the scene of the crime, figuring trajectories and counting bullet holes. All together there were four. One was deflected by a strip of metal outside, two were embedded in this wall and door frame, and one passed through the open doorway in this picture and expended its last energy on the closet frame of the pottery wheel room beyond.

Cameron's boss made up a glamorous story about a long, black limousine, surreptitiously-lowered glass, and mysterious guns blazing at the two of them while they bravely dodged bullets in the gallery, protecting the priceless artwork. (Well, we don't get a lot of excitement around here, so you have to use what you have at hand.)

The truth is probably more prosaic:

Since the shots were fired in the middle of the night, nobody was really trying to kill anyone.

Since they ignored the eight large plate glass windows and shot a smaller, easily-replaceable door,  they were not trying to bankrupt the business, nor carry out a political vendetta (not saying  that hasn't been done around here recently in nasty city council maneuvers but that's beside the point ).  

Since the shots were fired from about the height of a pick-up truck bed, and grouped into a limited area, the shooter was probably targeting a small object.

Therefore, from my extensive experience as a reader of detective fiction, I've concluded that the shots were fired by a slightly-inebriated young man, trying to impress the high school girls by shooting an ominous bat that fluttered in the light of the street lamp across the way.  Obviously, he missed.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

The Blue Door


 It was almost 23 years ago when we stumbled across a little house in a small village out in Western Oklahoma near the school where I was teaching.

The house had been re-possessed by the bank, abandoned, left with windows open and grass gone wild. Birds had nested in the light fixtures, and the carpet had been soaked with rain water several times. Still, it wasn't so bad. Dirty, but not filthy. Cleanable, paintable, fixable and livable. It was small, and had a tiny bathroom, but the three bedrooms each had a closet of their own, and there was room for a washer and dryer, albeit crammed into the already crowded kitchen. Someone had built a room off the back of the house, but it was only accessible from the back porch...or a bedroom window. It was a scraggly, forlorn little place and most people didn't give it a second glance. But we had three young children, and not a lot of money. The neighborhood was a perfect place for us and we never regretted the decision.

Over the years, we built another room onto the house--one which connected the main building with the odd room out back-- lived in the house for five years, rented it out for several years while we lived in Colorado, moved back into it again about the time our oldest daughter went to college, and finally, sold it when we moved into the parsonage where we are now. However, we sold it to our daughter and her husband, so for ten more years we have been in close contact with the house. Art and Carina completely re-modeled the house--roof, floors, walls, lights, woodwork. They took out an old, water-filled storm shelter, added a fireplace and built another bathroom, created attic access, stripped and stained cabinets. In short, made a beautiful home, just in time to leave it.

Yesterday, I watched as Carina, Zaya and Mim drove off toward Missouri to join Art at his new job and move into a new house. I helped as the movers cleared out the last of their stuff. We carried on, bantering about who was being lazy and who had lost the tape. Turtle came by, and Elijah and Marie. Art's mom came after noon, and helped with those gritty decisions about what to do with stuff left over. I gave a paint of coat to a few doors, covering little hand prints and a few penciled records of how tall children were at what age. My hands never fumbled, but sometimes my heart did.

It's only six hours to Missouri. I'll visit often. That's what I keep telling myself.

When everybody was gone I painted the door a bright, sparkling blue.
Three times I've painted that door blue.
It looks beautiful.




Three word Wednesday: Glance, fumble, banter